I found this very inspiring story about a dying father who left a legacy for his children, family and friends. And thought it would be nice to share a part of it. You can read the full article here.
I grew up with a father for only a short time. He went missing on a shipwreck when I was three. I could not imagine how hard it was for my mother at that time. That's why I believe that those of you who have both parents who love you, you should always show how you appreciate and feel blessed to have them. Read on...
(Disclaimer: Modified as necessary for this post's purpose.)
Be courteous, be punctual, always say please and thank you, and be sure to hold your knife and fork properly. Others take their cue on how to treat you from your manners.
Be kind, considerate and compassionate when others are in trouble, even if you have problems of your own. Others will admire your selflessness and will help you in due course.
Show moral courage. Do what is right, even if that makes you unpopular. It is important to be able to look at myself in the mirror every morning and not feel guilt or remorse. Live in this world with a pretty clear conscience.
Show humility. Stand your ground but pause to reflect on what the other side are saying, and back off when you know you are wrong. Never worry about losing face. That only happens when you are pig-headed.
Learn from your mistakes. You will make plenty so use them as a learning tool. If you keep making the same mistake or run into a problem, you’re doing something wrong.
Avoid disparaging someone to a third party; it is only you who will look bad. If you have a problem with someone, tell them face to face.
Hold fire! If someone crosses you, don’t react immediately. Once you say something it can never be taken back, and most people deserve a second chance.
Have fun. If this involves taking risks, so be it. If you get caught, hold your hands up.


