Perhaps when you get to do the usual stuff over and over, it becomes less interesting. The things you do could just be taken as something normal, or rather common. But the thing is that you did them all out of love. Not just out of the blue. So then why do people tend to take it for granted because they know that no matter what happens you're just there to stick around. Why can't there be a thought of making sure each deed counts and make a person feel appreciated, instead of having other people do it?
Strangers, friends... they come and go. But loved ones are there to stay. So who then are to be shown better attention? Time to get some reality check.